What is Travel Flexing?

#JustGo! "Quit you 9-5 and get paid to do what you love!" All the cool influencers are doing it. Don't you just wanna be popular?

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November 2019

We all love a good travel account. #Travelgram #SandInYourToes #TravelGoals right?

However, travel influencers can be kind of cringey, especially when they show off. And it’s kind of their jobs to be? They deal in the recycled clichés of:

⦁ Vapid solutions to actual real-life problems in their field (i.e.: “Quit your job and drop your responsibilities and taking flight!”)

⦁ Staged photos of a photographer’s disembodied hand meant to look impromptu as the influencer pulls them along a sandy beach

⦁ Exotic food with the perfectly curated bite mark while dying inside because they’d rather be eating a hamburger

Travel influencers are simultaneously aspirational on one hand, and on the other, the last people you should model your life after… Unless you’re looking into an influencer marketing career in the travel niche.

Part of that weird balance is because of Travel Flex.

(The Luxury Traveler flexin' on all them, circa forever.)

What does that even mean? To answer, I’ll start with a quote from my last Reading Roundup:

Nowadays, more people have the luxury and logistical prowess to wield travel as a tool to relieve boredom or get attention and celebrity online. […] We know these stories because we have clickbait-y vlogs and Instagram stories detailing every moment of the travelers’ journey.

There’s nothing wrong with making an extra buck with from your vacation. And most would agree that it’s OK to tell a story highlighting the good and downplaying the bad—that’s literally what marketing, advertising and branding are: Making the ordinary extraordinary.

In the blogosphere at a time when more and more people look to social media for online travel information, the travel flex is essentially marketing at its most basic and its most alluring. Which leads us to asking…

What is Travel Flexing?

For those who don’t know, flexing in this context is another way of saying that someone is showing off. But like, gratuitously showing off. Honestly, I never thought I’d write the definition of the word “flex” in this context, let alone cite an academic source non-ironically to give further context of flexing.

For those of you who prefer quick illustrations, a perfect example of general flexing is dropping your wallet and complaining that it’s sooooo heavy as you struggle to pick it up. A fashion example: Wearing Gucci flipflops with a Channel belt while securing a Prada backpack on your back with one hand and rolling around a Louis Vuitton carry-on with the other, all the while complaining that it’s too toasty because it’s the middle of summer and you’re wearing 3 YEEZY parkas.

Or whatever this is supposed to be:

Thus, it stands to reason that travel flexing is the act of showing off how amazing your life of travel is, and how amazing you are for having such a great life where you can travel so amazingly. It’s using persuasive tactics and strategies to convince audiences that you are an aspirational image.

Travel flexing lives in the matrix of showing off the frequency of your trips (#wanderlust), the quality of your accommodations (#luxurytravel), the “authenticity” of your travels (#nomadlife), the “life-changingness” of your journeys (#speechlesstravel), and the level of humility and enlightenment you’ve reached (#travelguru). Or basically, this:

Hilarious as that parody is, Hannah’s take adds a dimension of professionalism to travel flexing, specifically for those in marketing/branding/social media. And it creates a new working definition: travel flexing is the communicative process by which travel influencers (1) position their brands in the market; (2) virtue signal to their audiences, potential brand partners, and uninitiated followers; and (3) strengthen the community that supports them by generating social value (status aka “clout”) that gets imparted on everyone involved.

Hannah is right on the money when she calls out the recycled and tired travel tropes that audiences most respond to. She’s also right in implying that we literally consume the same media over and over and over again. Ironically, that familiarity in method is very good for business—at least for now.

So are you the type of of person guilty of travel flexing for no reason? Or is showing off your lavish jetset lifestyle a necessary evil that you simply must indulge in?

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"I Choose Exile" by Richard Wright
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